Letting go

It's a lot harder than it seems. You talk all day, everyday. You fall asleep on the phone together. Wake up to good morning texts. You think about them every second when you're awake then when you're asleep, you dream about them. You spend time w them whether it's in person or not. They soon become a part of your everyday life and you get used to it.

Then all of a sudden, they leave. And most of the time once they're gone, they're gone for good. Meaning, no more late night calls, no more cute texts, actually no texts at all. No more "I love you" "babe" all of that. The first days you would want to call, text, really do everything just to talk to them and restore what's "normal". But as you try, things don't change. The hardest part is letting go.

The person that was once your everything is now just a memory. A memory that you replay our and our again in your head. You spend nights reminiscing in the said words, shared laughter, the kisses, the hugs, all the good things that went on during the time when you two were together. Letting go can take weeks, months, even years. Remember that this was just a fragment of time, a memory that will someday fade.

Love is complicated. But still humans must try to love each other. We must get our hearts broken sometimes. This is a good sign, having our heart broken. It means we have tried for something. And we can't possibly regret something that once made us happy.

"You can love someone so much... But you can never love someone as much as you can miss them."