"I choose to stay with him for all the things that he had done right and not leave him for the one thing that he has done wrong" - The Vow.
So I watched The Vow quite awhile ago and this particular line really left a huge impact on me. Often we get mad at people that mean so much to us over a small matter and thats okay, because fights bring people closer together. But what if it was the last time that we are ever gonna see them? Would you still spend those precious moments being angry at that person?
Truth is, i don't know what's gonna happen in the future. Its so hard to be happy because i tend to make the past seem better that it is, the present worse than it is and the future less resolved than it will be. Some days are great, someways not so. But I'm doing the best I can. Do whatever you want to do, there are only so many tomorrows.
To forgive as well as to forget. Before giving up on someone, giving up on a relationship, think about all that you've been through. The sweet things that the person has done for you, the late night talks, surprise kisses & all the reasons why you even fell inlove w the person in the first place. Is it really worth it to give it all up? Instead of focusing on finding the perfect person, focus more on BEING the perfect person.
When a person doesn't love you the way you want them to, doesn't mean they don't love you w all they have. Because no matter how bad your heart has been broken, the world doesn't stop for your grief. It's so important to appreciate that special someone because no matter how many others people you can flirt w, is it worth it to lose your gf/bf over them? If its really the right person for you, just him/her alone would be enough (:
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